I have a felling it is a vocal minority that really wants any kind of merge or change to the CROM ruleset. History has shown us that any merge you loose some of your player base. Right after a merge, the server population is larger than the largest population of any of the pre merged servers, but drops to about that of the largest pre merge server in a short period of time. Rage and Fury are good examples of this.
Community on Crom is already fragmented from merges and those that re-rolled or transferred in from PvP servers. Adding in more will deteriorate what is left of a community on Crom even faster.
While I feel bad for all of you "stuck on dead Servers", I don't think a merge is in the best interest of the majority of the remaining playerbase.