I know this is going to be a noob question but I haven't got a straight answer about not picking up your tombstone after you die. Are the reductions in stats permanent or only during the 30 minute duration? Should I make a solid effort to go back and get my tombstone? In some cases I do because I died in a certain area for a reason and in some cases, I just don't want to go back through that hell.
Just wondering how it worked?