this is the fundamental difference between the way pvpers play and pvers.
It happens all the time where one team runs the first flag in to cap while the other five players get killed 5vs6 then camps the flag at the pad in the vain hope of maybe dropping the better teams flag and capping again while the rest of the team gets destroyed repeatedly trying to kill the flag carrier.
Where as pvpers will fight it out till one teams gets the upper hand then caps out once they are broken and demoralized.
Personally i prefer to be on the losing team farming the other flag bots then winning with one cap and 20 deaths....